Why it DOESN’T MATTER if You Reach Your Goals
/Did you make New Years’ resolutions this year? If you did, by mid-February you’re likely to lose your resolve. In fact, according to US News & World Report, 80% of people that make a New Year’s resolution lose their steam and fail to reach their goal over the course of the year. Does it matter if you don’t reach your goal? Counterintuitively, it depends on what happens during the process of pursuing the achievement of your goals.
Jim Rohn, a godfather of motivational speakers, posits that goals don’t matter in and of themselves. He says, “The ultimate reason for setting goals is to entice you to become the person it takes to achieve them.” What does this mean for you and how do you use this idea to your greatest good?
Step One: Make Big Goals
It is sad that there is so much truth in Thoreau’s statement that most people live lives of quiet desperation. A lack of a compelling vision that creates concrete goals is a major reason for this sadness and depression. Without a challenging and exciting goal, each day can easily blend into the next. Jim Rohn reminds us, “Don’t set your goals too low. If you don’t need much, you won’t become much.”
Find the courage to chase after big, scary, thrilling dreams. In your professional life, that may be reaching the CCO role, speaking in front of 100 people, publishing an article, or committing to joining a networking group…and showing up to each meeting.
In your personal life, you could choose something scary that you aren’t sure you can do. Last year I decided to complete my first marathon. I genuinely didn’t think I could do it, but the idea excited me. Committing to the vision was the first step to completion.
Step Two: …
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